Girls looking for orbiters
Everyone in the pickup world knows what an orbiter is. Those outside the community don't know what this means but they probably sure as hell have experienced it first hand. An explanation of the term is not what this short treatise on the subject is about.
Once you know a girl is lining you up to be an orbiter - there is only one course of action. Cut her off from you completely. Fuck her (unfortunately you can't do that literally), you don't need her anymore. Show some self respect - no girl's looks are worth more than your own dignity.
I got into a situation recently where I thought I'd demonstated pretty good value to this girl to make her attracted to me. At first it appeared so, I mean she called me, she took my calls to her, she sent me flirtatious text messages on so on. I was wary of her bullshit though, so fearing she may want an orbiter, I pushed her hard to meet me, the way she responded it became clear I what she was after. As soon as I sussed it, I basically stopped chasing her. It appeared she was grooming me to continuously validate her. I took me a while to figure it out, and I was always wary of this possibility
Now in these kind of situations Mystery or Tyler may advocate, breaking away from her, then opening communication again after a while showing massively higher value, you other chicks etc.
The world is full of nice guys who don't how the fuck women operate. IF ONLY THEY KNEW.
As a man, when you see a girl who just makes you cry she's so beautiful, you want her so bad, if you are not in the community the chances are you will become a fucking orbiter. It's such a shame, good looking women are naturals at creating orbiters in their life and because the community is such a far out thing that not many people know of, the male population is full of orbiters who think they have a chance. Wake dudes - don't take this shit.
We know better
There was a girl I picked up, that I thought that
This Malaysian escort whore I picked up. I figured she didn't need anymore validation from guys. I mean if people are paying her £1000 a night so they can sleep with her or a minimun of £150 per hour, in terms of her physical attractiveness she's getting serious validation.
This
It's about a rule I've formulated. The rule is this - once you've done you're pickup, assuming your close wasn't an f-close. You then move into a different phase. To real pickup artists getting numbers is not a big deal at all.
I say push the girl
Once you know a girl is lining you up to be an orbiter - there is only one course of action. Cut her off from you completely. Fuck her (unfortunately you can't do that literally), you don't need her anymore. Show some self respect - no girl's looks are worth more than your own dignity.
I got into a situation recently where I thought I'd demonstated pretty good value to this girl to make her attracted to me. At first it appeared so, I mean she called me, she took my calls to her, she sent me flirtatious text messages on so on. I was wary of her bullshit though, so fearing she may want an orbiter, I pushed her hard to meet me, the way she responded it became clear I what she was after. As soon as I sussed it, I basically stopped chasing her. It appeared she was grooming me to continuously validate her. I took me a while to figure it out, and I was always wary of this possibility
Now in these kind of situations Mystery or Tyler may advocate, breaking away from her, then opening communication again after a while showing massively higher value, you other chicks etc.
The world is full of nice guys who don't how the fuck women operate. IF ONLY THEY KNEW.
As a man, when you see a girl who just makes you cry she's so beautiful, you want her so bad, if you are not in the community the chances are you will become a fucking orbiter. It's such a shame, good looking women are naturals at creating orbiters in their life and because the community is such a far out thing that not many people know of, the male population is full of orbiters who think they have a chance. Wake dudes - don't take this shit.
We know better
There was a girl I picked up, that I thought that
This Malaysian escort whore I picked up. I figured she didn't need anymore validation from guys. I mean if people are paying her £1000 a night so they can sleep with her or a minimun of £150 per hour, in terms of her physical attractiveness she's getting serious validation.
This
It's about a rule I've formulated. The rule is this - once you've done you're pickup, assuming your close wasn't an f-close. You then move into a different phase. To real pickup artists getting numbers is not a big deal at all.
I say push the girl
posted by London Pickup Artist at 12:22 PM
5 Comments:
You know, this is interesting. I'd just read your entry on orbiters as I was starting to see see this hot Spanish girl. Now, she's probably a 7 and she was way into me, asked me to go see a concert with her friends as soon as we met. She approached ME. Then she asks me out with her friends. But always its WITH HER FRIENDS. The other day I suggest a meeting just me and her (which she had alluded to previously) but then comes back to me with let's not do that let's go out with my FRIENDS again... has she got something to prove? i'm thinking of getting way out of there, I have other female interest, but she's a cool girl and my dignity is still just intact but I'm getting major orbiter warnings.... then again she's Spanish, and everything's social with them, but still I'm wary.
I've had a situation that parallels what you've just described to the letter, apart from the girl in question not being Spanish. This was a long time ago, when I wouldn't have understood the signs.
Remember the seduction community gives you almost unlimited options, make use of them. And, if the girl you're talking about sees that you have these options, she will be more attracted to you.
I think I walked into the "orbiter" track, hook line and sinker recently. Picked up a 9.5, played a perfect game and kiss-closed her on that same occasion.
I basically had her eating out of my hands, and had her calling me the next day.
But this is where it all went horribly wrong, I got over-eager in seeing her again and fell right back into old AFC behavior. She lost sexual interest quicker than you could say "herpes!".
The minute she knew she could have me, and that I was likely to be like all other guys, I was fucked, and not in the way I would have preferred.
Dude, sorry it took a while to publish your comment. I haven't been updating this weblog for a while, been busy with other things.
I'll be back soon though - for the new assault, it's gonna be good.
No worries. Liked your blog, so looking forward to the "new assault".
If you want to, you might want to check out my blog (link in signature above). I'm kind of new to this stuff, but I thought I'd chronicle my thoughts and improvements, so further down the road I can see where I've come from and what I've achieved both in terms of tangible results (babes) and personal change. Hopefully I'll update it a few times a week.
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